How does one succeed in life?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

I committed the unpardonable sin. God immediately punished me so that I can no longer think like before and my brain is as if paralyzed and does not work. I've tried everything (confession, repentance, etc.) nothing helps. Any advice?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Ask yourself:

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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What I need from you?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

While emptying a house, have you ever seen something in it that blew your mind?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

That's it for today.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Making more friends is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.